The best way to invite good new things into your life is to make room for them. Just as you declutter your office and home , from time to time do a check and throw-out anything that isn’t helping you make your success achievable .
Here are some good places to start :
Trying To Be Perfect :-- Perfectionism sets us up for failure. It’s not a quest for the best but a way of telling yourself you will never be good enough.
Playing Small :-- Expand your horizons .Go big .Grow! sometimes the process is painful , but it’
Faking It :-- Vulnerability sounds like truth and feels like courage .Truth and courage aren’t always comfortable but they ‘re always strong.
Waiting For Luck :-- Luck builds it foundation on preperation .Coming across good opportunities may be partly a matter of luck , but it’s also a matter of knowing where to find them and being prepared to make the most of them.
Waiting For Anything :-- We have been fooled into thinking that if we wait for the right-time ,right place ,and right person we will be successful , but opportunity is where you find it , not where it find you.
Needing Approval :-- Don’t let the opinion of others consume you ; what a waste of time .
Trying To Do It Alone :-- Even if you can pull it off , it’s twice as much work and half as much fun when you do it alone.
Making Empty Promises :-- Make your promises rare and 100 Percent reliable.
Fixating On Your Weakness :-- We all have our weak points .Work on them , but focus on your strengths.
Blaming Others :-- It’s cowardly and it costs you respect.
Overlooking Your Negative Thoughts :-- You may believe that you are responsible for what you do but not what you think .The truth is that-those things cann’t be separated.
Living In The Past :-- Your future start now .
Trying To Please-Everyone :-- The surest path to failure is trying to please-everyone . Work to please only-yourself and those who are important-to you.
Small Goals :-- Small goals yield small results , big-goals ;big(and sometimes huge) results. Holding Onto Grudges :-- They ‘re a waste of time and a thief of contentment and happiness . Avoiding Change :-- Change will happen with your permission or not . Manage it when you can and always make the best of it .
Trying To Never Make A Mistake :-- Avoiding risk and never daring is the biggest mistake you can make .
Saying “ I Cann’t “ :-- Don’t give up just because things are hard , and-don’t-talk to yourself in negative terms .
Minimizing Yourself :-- Being a shrinking violet doesn’t help you , it doesn’t put any one-else at ease and it’s a bore.
Gossiping :-- Small people indulge in gossip . Talk about idea instead and when you do talk about people , be compassionate and supportive always .
Staying Down :-- Failure does not come from falling down . Failure comes from not getting up . Complaining :-- If you spend time complaining about yesterday , you won’t have time to make tomorrow better .
Spending Time With Negative People :-- If those around you are trying to bring you down , may be it’s time to lift yourself up .
Comparing Yourself With Others :-- Comparison isanother thief of your happiness . Don’t worry about what others are doing .
Thinking You Cann’t Make A Difference :-- Each of us can make a difference and together we make a change . We all have traits and tendencies we need to give up so we can let something great come.
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